Martha suggested updating a short necklace with a ribbon - it’s a romantic look, she claims. Lord. I’m not a fan of the ribboned-necklace look... OK, I was - in 2004 - it’s now 2012.
Begrudgingly, I went to select something that had the potential to not be hideous. I chose a double strand of stick pearls and three complementary spools of ribbon of varying widths.
I knotted the three ribbons to one end of the necklace and at the same time tried to cover the clasp. I then braided the three ribbons together. I actually liked the way the braided ribbon looked. Because of the different widths it had a bit of whimsy to it..
OK, some would say romantic. It looked as though it should have been weaved though Buttercup’s hair in Princess Bride, remember that movie? Am I dating myself? Again, I digress. No, this braided ribbon was going to be attached to a necklace. Fantastic.
Do you see the pearl in the middle of the right hand side? That's the other part of the clasp. Classy, right? |
Then I had the conversation with Ben about wearing it. I didn’t want to - I was like a child not wanting to wear what my mom had picked out. I was like my son not ever wanting to wear a sweater. Ben thought I should, so I did.
Off to work I went with this travesty draped around my neck. I was not proud. I felt like a social experiment. Would I be mocked? Would people point and laugh? Would there be whispering?? Then, not too far into the morning, it happened. A compliment. My friend exclaimed, 'that necklace is HOT!' I loved her for it though I had to violently disagree. Then, on my way home from work I stopped at the Papersource (love) and the cutest little bohemian elfin gushed about how much she loved it too. Was I wrong? How could I be wrong, when I'm always right? It is hideous, no?
In retrospect, I should have given it to the girl at the Papersource, it would have made her day.
Ali
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Ah, this is one of the few areas where Ali and I differ - I am not a jewelry girl. I had very few necklaces to choose from (at least three of them were from Ali) and a less than extensive ribbon collection as well. I chose a sad piece of ribbon from my stash saved from gifts of the past. It seemed like it would work the best (who am I kidding, it was the only possibility) and set out to find a necklace to go with it.
My first attempt never made it to fruition. It was a pretty necklace (thanks Ali) but didn't go with my blue ribbon. So .... I went in a totally different direction. I removed a silver flower from a chain and strung it on the ribbon. Ridiculous, I thought. Actually, I used a much ruder word when describing the result to Ali, but I put it on and went off to work.
I received three compliments within the first half hour of arriving at work, including "is that new?" Really? I must have worn this flower with the regular chain 30 times! I received 2 more compliments on my whole outfit! And one on my shoes - unrelated, yes, but they are really cute shoes.
So, would I wear this again? It could be cute for a holiday party. I'd give it a big maybe.
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Ah, this is one of the few areas where Ali and I differ - I am not a jewelry girl. I had very few necklaces to choose from (at least three of them were from Ali) and a less than extensive ribbon collection as well. I chose a sad piece of ribbon from my stash saved from gifts of the past. It seemed like it would work the best (who am I kidding, it was the only possibility) and set out to find a necklace to go with it.
My first attempt never made it to fruition. It was a pretty necklace (thanks Ali) but didn't go with my blue ribbon. So .... I went in a totally different direction. I removed a silver flower from a chain and strung it on the ribbon. Ridiculous, I thought. Actually, I used a much ruder word when describing the result to Ali, but I put it on and went off to work.
I received three compliments within the first half hour of arriving at work, including "is that new?" Really? I must have worn this flower with the regular chain 30 times! I received 2 more compliments on my whole outfit! And one on my shoes - unrelated, yes, but they are really cute shoes.
So, would I wear this again? It could be cute for a holiday party. I'd give it a big maybe.
Jacqui
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